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		<title>By: gozgozlin</title>
		<link>http://www.bronxbanterblog.com/2010/01/11/step-to-the-left/#comment-93796</link>
		<dc:creator>gozgozlin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 03:36:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Are you kidding me? This has to be the most mild &quot;bad parenting&quot; story I&#039;ve ever heard. Slight impatience? Mild profanity? Are we really such victorians that we&#039;re offended by such things these days? Or is there, just maybe, a classist vibe going on in these comments? Where the 30s something commenters display a haughty lack of sympathy for the frustrations of people from different circumstances? Sorry stuff guys, hate to say it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you kidding me? This has to be the most mild &#8220;bad parenting&#8221; story I&#8217;ve ever heard. Slight impatience? Mild profanity? Are we really such victorians that we&#8217;re offended by such things these days? Or is there, just maybe, a classist vibe going on in these comments? Where the 30s something commenters display a haughty lack of sympathy for the frustrations of people from different circumstances? Sorry stuff guys, hate to say it.</p>
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		<title>By: Mr. OK Jazz TOKYO</title>
		<link>http://www.bronxbanterblog.com/2010/01/11/step-to-the-left/#comment-93795</link>
		<dc:creator>Mr. OK Jazz TOKYO</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 00:54:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[17] Agreed, keep them coming AB. 

Often see incidents here of what would be considered child abuse back home, kid getting smacked in the head (occasionally even teachers do that, though it&#039;S banned now.) Always makes me sick..how could you hit a child, for ANY reason?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[17] Agreed, keep them coming AB. </p>
<p>Often see incidents here of what would be considered child abuse back home, kid getting smacked in the head (occasionally even teachers do that, though it&#8217;S banned now.) Always makes me sick..how could you hit a child, for ANY reason?</p>
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		<title>By: weeping for brunnhilde</title>
		<link>http://www.bronxbanterblog.com/2010/01/11/step-to-the-left/#comment-93794</link>
		<dc:creator>weeping for brunnhilde</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 23:18:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[14] Yes, please do, Alex.  I love when you post about these kinds of scenes.  You do NY justice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[14] Yes, please do, Alex.  I love when you post about these kinds of scenes.  You do NY justice.</p>
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		<title>By: weeping for brunnhilde</title>
		<link>http://www.bronxbanterblog.com/2010/01/11/step-to-the-left/#comment-93793</link>
		<dc:creator>weeping for brunnhilde</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 23:16:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[3] I am a parent and there&#039;s no excuse for that kind of talk, that kind of treatment.  Poor kid.  It&#039;s so sad.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[3] I am a parent and there&#8217;s no excuse for that kind of talk, that kind of treatment.  Poor kid.  It&#8217;s so sad.</p>
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		<title>By: FlyGirlFan</title>
		<link>http://www.bronxbanterblog.com/2010/01/11/step-to-the-left/#comment-93792</link>
		<dc:creator>FlyGirlFan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 22:44:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Alex, you did the right thing by changing cars - with no Transit Cop in sight its best to be safe, both mentally and physically.  But I would like to let you know that if you are an airplane, make sure you tell a Flight Attendant.  We can ask people to lower their voices, and depending on the content of the conversation call Child Protective Services/law inforcement to meet the flight.  I&#039;ve done it before and will do it again, if needed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alex, you did the right thing by changing cars &#8211; with no Transit Cop in sight its best to be safe, both mentally and physically.  But I would like to let you know that if you are an airplane, make sure you tell a Flight Attendant.  We can ask people to lower their voices, and depending on the content of the conversation call Child Protective Services/law inforcement to meet the flight.  I&#8217;ve done it before and will do it again, if needed.</p>
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		<title>By: Alex Belth</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alex Belth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 21:02:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Guys, I will try and focus more on these kinds of posts. Little snapshots of life in the city. I enjoy writing them more than I do about the latest baseball news most of the time. Thanks for all the cool feedback.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Guys, I will try and focus more on these kinds of posts. Little snapshots of life in the city. I enjoy writing them more than I do about the latest baseball news most of the time. Thanks for all the cool feedback.</p>
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		<title>By: joejoejoe</title>
		<link>http://www.bronxbanterblog.com/2010/01/11/step-to-the-left/#comment-93790</link>
		<dc:creator>joejoejoe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 20:45:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>11] It&#039;s cool. I meant positive or negative stories more than stories well told. I&#039;m not in NYC anymore and love it when Alex captures the energy of a train ride home from the ballpark. That&#039;s beautiful to me in a way traffic on the Van Wyck is not. You see the best and worst of humanity up close (sometimes too close) in the city. It&#039;s not right or wrong.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>11] It&#8217;s cool. I meant positive or negative stories more than stories well told. I&#8217;m not in NYC anymore and love it when Alex captures the energy of a train ride home from the ballpark. That&#8217;s beautiful to me in a way traffic on the Van Wyck is not. You see the best and worst of humanity up close (sometimes too close) in the city. It&#8217;s not right or wrong.</p>
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		<title>By: mrm1970</title>
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		<dc:creator>mrm1970</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 20:33:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There is no earthly reason for an infant to be awake at 9pm at night.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is no earthly reason for an infant to be awake at 9pm at night.</p>
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		<title>By: Chyll Will</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chyll Will</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 19:22:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[10] Don&#039;t get me wrong,the story was well told, but my own experience with city transit has been largely negative.  I guess I&#039;m not a city guy at heart, thas&#039;all.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[10] Don&#8217;t get me wrong,the story was well told, but my own experience with city transit has been largely negative.  I guess I&#8217;m not a city guy at heart, thas&#8217;all.</p>
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		<title>By: joejoejoe</title>
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		<dc:creator>joejoejoe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 18:54:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[9] I love the transit stories on Bronx Banter, good and bad. I see this post as a snapshot of life in the city, not a comment on transit. The same scene could have played out at a counter in a diner or in a park.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[9] I love the transit stories on Bronx Banter, good and bad. I see this post as a snapshot of life in the city, not a comment on transit. The same scene could have played out at a counter in a diner or in a park.</p>
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		<title>By: Chyll Will</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chyll Will</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 17:37:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with all of you. I can&#039;t tell you how soul-draining it is to be stuck in the train with loud and foulmouthed people, young and old, who only become moreso when confronted about their behavior.  If it&#039;s acceptable to the general population, I want nothing to do with it.  After ten years of riding trains and buses, I&#039;m so glad I have a car; even if I do live in the city.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with all of you. I can&#8217;t tell you how soul-draining it is to be stuck in the train with loud and foulmouthed people, young and old, who only become moreso when confronted about their behavior.  If it&#8217;s acceptable to the general population, I want nothing to do with it.  After ten years of riding trains and buses, I&#8217;m so glad I have a car; even if I do live in the city.</p>
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		<title>By: Yankee Mama</title>
		<link>http://www.bronxbanterblog.com/2010/01/11/step-to-the-left/#comment-93785</link>
		<dc:creator>Yankee Mama</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 17:09:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[7] You&#039;re right.. The willingness and the desire to overcome would have to precipitate any change. And even then, it won&#039;t be easy. Changing a behavior is hard work. It starts with pain.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[7] You&#8217;re right.. The willingness and the desire to overcome would have to precipitate any change. And even then, it won&#8217;t be easy. Changing a behavior is hard work. It starts with pain.</p>
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		<title>By: Alex Belth</title>
		<link>http://www.bronxbanterblog.com/2010/01/11/step-to-the-left/#comment-93784</link>
		<dc:creator>Alex Belth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 17:02:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>6) I&#039;m afraid to get to the place where you don&#039;t treat another human being the way an abusive parent treats you, you&#039;ve got to go through many years of imitating them first. Lots of therapy and concerted effort probably helps to break that tradition.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>6) I&#8217;m afraid to get to the place where you don&#8217;t treat another human being the way an abusive parent treats you, you&#8217;ve got to go through many years of imitating them first. Lots of therapy and concerted effort probably helps to break that tradition.</p>
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		<title>By: Yankee Mama</title>
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		<dc:creator>Yankee Mama</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 16:58:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A similar thing happened on to me on a crosstown bus. I guess I got to be a captive audience as the bus crossed the park. I was rattled. The mother, so unnecessarily loud and abusive. 

All I could think was, Well little one, you&#039;ve got options here. You can either decide to never treat another human being the way your mother is treating you. Or, you can replicate her behavior hereby perpetuating all that&#039;s wrong with the world. Which is it?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A similar thing happened on to me on a crosstown bus. I guess I got to be a captive audience as the bus crossed the park. I was rattled. The mother, so unnecessarily loud and abusive. </p>
<p>All I could think was, Well little one, you&#8217;ve got options here. You can either decide to never treat another human being the way your mother is treating you. Or, you can replicate her behavior hereby perpetuating all that&#8217;s wrong with the world. Which is it?</p>
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		<title>By: RagingTartabull</title>
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		<dc:creator>RagingTartabull</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 16:43:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I really don&#039;t miss the 1 train.

Wait a minute...now I have to take the 6 to work everyday. 

Damn, I miss the 1 train.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really don&#8217;t miss the 1 train.</p>
<p>Wait a minute&#8230;now I have to take the 6 to work everyday. </p>
<p>Damn, I miss the 1 train.</p>
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		<title>By: Diane Firstman</title>
		<link>http://www.bronxbanterblog.com/2010/01/11/step-to-the-left/#comment-93781</link>
		<dc:creator>Diane Firstman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 16:27:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I LOVE kids.  But I also know myself pretty well, and know I don&#039;t have the patience and selflessness to raise them/deal with them 24/7.

So, I am more than happy to be &quot;Aunt Diane&quot; to my BFF&#039;s kids, and to always say &quot;hi&quot; to kids in elevators or on the street ... commenting on their cool hat, or doll, or whatever.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I LOVE kids.  But I also know myself pretty well, and know I don&#8217;t have the patience and selflessness to raise them/deal with them 24/7.</p>
<p>So, I am more than happy to be &#8220;Aunt Diane&#8221; to my BFF&#8217;s kids, and to always say &#8220;hi&#8221; to kids in elevators or on the street &#8230; commenting on their cool hat, or doll, or whatever.</p>
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		<title>By: Alex Belth</title>
		<link>http://www.bronxbanterblog.com/2010/01/11/step-to-the-left/#comment-93780</link>
		<dc:creator>Alex Belth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 16:15:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, I&#039;m not a parent so I can&#039;t pretend to know how difficult it is. This lady just happened to be a parent--something that usually strikes a nerve--but its really about anyone that is upsetting...why hang around? There is too much that I find myself numb too as it is.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, I&#8217;m not a parent so I can&#8217;t pretend to know how difficult it is. This lady just happened to be a parent&#8211;something that usually strikes a nerve&#8211;but its really about anyone that is upsetting&#8230;why hang around? There is too much that I find myself numb too as it is.</p>
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		<title>By: Dimelo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dimelo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 16:12:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[1] Yeah I know.  

What&#039;s sad is that you see the see the vicious cycle being repeated, the same mistakes  made with the prior generations is repeated over and over with future generations.

Yeah, Alex, moving is the right thing to do.  Sometimes people can be too loud, too stupid, or just plain ol&#039; undesirable for reasons only known in that instant, moving is usually the best option so you don&#039;t go nuts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[1] Yeah I know.  </p>
<p>What&#8217;s sad is that you see the see the vicious cycle being repeated, the same mistakes  made with the prior generations is repeated over and over with future generations.</p>
<p>Yeah, Alex, moving is the right thing to do.  Sometimes people can be too loud, too stupid, or just plain ol&#8217; undesirable for reasons only known in that instant, moving is usually the best option so you don&#8217;t go nuts.</p>
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		<title>By: Diane Firstman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Diane Firstman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 16:04:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>They make you pass a written and physical test to be able to drive a car.
Unfortunately, there is no such requirement for raising a child. :-(</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>They make you pass a written and physical test to be able to drive a car.<br />
Unfortunately, there is no such requirement for raising a child. <img src='http://www.bronxbanterblog.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':-(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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